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Honest reflections from Dave. Strong opinions from Reese. Conversations that kept going after the microphones stopped. Grab a drink and stay awhile.
July 9, 2026

Meanwhile, Back at Our House... The Day Our Younger Selves Came Over

It happened so quietly we almost missed it.
One minute we were sitting in our little recording room talking about The Bear.
The next...
The door opened.
In walked two people we hadn't seen in a very long time.
Us.
Twenty years younger.
They l…
July 8, 2026

According to Reese: Everything Annoys Me. That Doesn't Mean Everything Deserves My Energy.

I'm just going to say it.
Everything annoys me.
Seriously.
Everything.
It sucks to be this way, but I think it's in my DNA. Somewhere in my family tree there's a long line of people who loved naps and were irritated by everyone around them. I in…
July 7, 2026

Dave's Notebook: The Story You Tell Yourself Is Usually the Problem

We finished the final season of The Bear over the weekend.
It wasn't the ending that stayed with me.
It was the conversations.
Nobody suddenly became a different person. Nobody had an epiphany that magically fixed everything. They were still flaw…
July 2, 2026

According to Reese: Stop Asking Couples Boring Questions

You know what question I hate?
"So... what's new?"
I don't know.
I did three loads of laundry.
I yelled at the dishwasher.
I watched Dave almost destroy his car trying to bring home linguine.
That's what's new.
Here's the thing.
When you've …
July 1, 2026

Meanwhile, Back at Our House... Would You Save Your Friend from a Bear?

The microphones are off, but the conversation isn't.

Dave: I have a question.
Reese: Every time you say that, I know it's going to end badly.
Dave: Would you save your friend from a grizzly bear if it meant it rained on you for the rest of you…
June 30, 2026

According to Reese: I Learned Something About Dave Because of a Grizzly Bear

I learned something about Dave because of a grizzly bear.
Which is not a sentence I ever thought I'd write.
We weren't talking about a real bear, obviously.
It was one of those ridiculous hypothetical questions.
Would you save your friend from a…
June 29, 2026

Dave's Notebook: I Got Caught in a Flash Flood... and My Biggest Concern Was Pasta

I had one job.
Bring home dinner.
Reese had been craving linguine with white clam sauce from a new Italian restaurant, so after yoga I figured I'd surprise her.
Simple enough.
While I waited for the food, I heard thunder.
Then lightning.
Then …
June 17, 2026

Meanwhile, Back at Our House... The Great Pillow Standoff

Reese was scrolling through her phone again.
Dave didn't even have to ask.
He'd seen that look before.
"I think I found it."
Dave smiled.
"The pillow?"
"The pillow."
This apparently made perfect sense to Reese.
To Dave, it sounded suspicious…
June 16, 2026

According to Reese: I'm Beginning to Think the Perfect Pillow Doesn't Exist

I have officially reached the point in my life where a pillow can ruin my entire week.
I'm not proud of it.
But here we are.
At this point I've ordered pillows from Amazon.
I've ordered pillows from TikTok.
I've canceled pillows.
I've reordere…
June 15, 2026

Dave's Notebook: Maybe the Secret Is Learning to Adapt

Reese has been searching for the perfect pillow for months.
I'm not exaggerating.
There have been online orders.
Shipping delays.
Canceled orders.
More shipping delays.
At one point, I started wondering if this pillow was ever actually manufac…
April 5, 2026

Featured Cocktail: Black Velvet

Black Velvet (Hard Cider + Guinness)
Some drinks try too hard.
This one doesn’t.
The Black Velvet is simple, a little unexpected, and way better than it has any right to be. Just like a lot of the moments we talked about in this episode.
You’ve …
March 22, 2026

Featured Cocktail: Daiquiri Martini

The Unexpected Drink from Ep. 151
On Ep. 151 of Manic Joy, this drink wasn’t planned.
It showed up because we were out of vodka.
That’s it. That’s the origin story.
But somehow, in an episode about looking back at the moments that changed us, th…
March 12, 2026

Featured Cocktail: Irish Coffee

Some drinks feel like they were invented for conversation.
An Irish coffee is one of them.
It’s warm. A little sweet. A little strong. Perfect for slow mornings, late nights, or sitting on the couch talking about life the way Dave and Reese did in…
March 1, 2026

Featured Cocktail: Dirty Spicy Martini

The one that was supposed to be spicy… and mostly just dirty.
If you’ve been listening to Ep. 149, you know this drink caused some trust issues.
It was meant to be bold. Fiery. Confident.
Instead, it was more like… suspiciously mellow with a side…
Feb. 21, 2026

Featured Cocktail: Clean Snow Martini

This one started as a joke.
We were talking about snow.
Then about “snow.”
Then about stage props, roof leaks, and ice dams.
And somehow we landed on this.
The Clean Snow Martini looks innocent. Pale. Bright. A little frosty.
But there’s just …
Feb. 15, 2026

Featured Cocktail: The French Kiss Cocktail

If you listened to Ep. 147: An STD of Love (Happy Valentine’s Day) on our couples podcast, you already know this wasn’t a quiet, candlelit evening.
There was a towed car.
There was snow drama.
There was Chick-fil-A timing chaos.
But there was al…
Sept. 6, 2025

Featured Cocktail: Pear Martini

Pear Martini
Sometimes your brain’s a mess. Sometimes it’s brilliant. Either way, a Pear Martini helps. This was the drink of choice for Manic Joy episode 130 — light, crisp, and just fancy enough to make us feel like we had our lives together for …
June 19, 2025

Featured Cocktail: Black Forest Martini

🍒 The Black Forest Martini
A cocktail as dramatic and delicious as a letter from Annie Oakley
Inspired by a chocolate cherry cordial—and made even better with a little creative improvisation—this cocktail tastes like dessert in a glass. It's rich,…
May 18, 2025

Featured Cocktail: The Vesper Martini


🍸 The Vesper Martini: A Boozy Beauty with Bond-Level Cool
We’re not saying the Vesper Martini is responsible for everything that happened in this episode… but we’re also not not saying that. Remember, this is our go-to cocktail. So, it's probabl…
April 27, 2025

Featured Cocktail: Classic Vodka Martini

If there’s one cocktail that screams “grown-up,” it’s the classic vodka martini. It’s simple, crisp, and dangerously easy to fall in love with—especially when you’re recording a new episode and need a little liquid courage. On Episode 126 of Manic J…
April 20, 2025

Featured Cocktail: El Camino

El Camino Cocktail
As featured in Episode 125: “Baby, You Can Drive My Car!”
This one’s for the car lovers, the deal negotiators, the dashboard DJs—and anyone who’s ever named their vehicle like a pet. The El Camino is a smooth, stirred cocktail t…
April 13, 2025

Featured Cocktail: Chocolate Martini

The drink that helped us dive headfirst into the weird, wild world of Garbage Pail Kids!
If you listened to Episode 124: Hope Grows in a Dump, you know we kicked off the Garbage Pail Kids nostalgia dive with a little something indulgent in our glas…
March 23, 2025

Featured Cocktail: El Diablo

A Show About the Show (and a Damn Good Drink)
In Episode 122 of Manic Joy, we did something a little different. Instead of diving into a theme like love or uncertainty, we turned the spotlight on the show itself.
Over a couple of El Diablos (more …
Dec. 11, 2021

Behind the Elopement: Dave & Reese

As described in episode 2: Love, it's a love story for the ages! 
Join Luke Hancock as he goes behind the elopement to uncover the unexpected secret of two star-crossed lovers.
Click "Watch on YouTube" to er, watch on YouTube. Unfortunately, that'…
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