Episodes

Reese turned 50. Dave showed up with jokes. In this midlife marriage milestone, Dave and Reese recount the birthday adventures, surprising realizations, and genuine laughter that happens when a couple has decades of material to work with. Because sometimes the best way to show love? A good roast. Watch Reese's birthday video and hear the full story behind the celebration. Watch her "Happy Birthday, Reese" video. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to th...

Dave and Reese answer real listener questions about relationships across life stages—early love, midlife shifts, and beyond. From keeping marriage fun to navigating intentional relationships when everything changes, they explore what couples actually need to talk about. This Q&A episode models the curiosity that strengthens long-term partnerships. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Dave and Reese celebrate the women they love on International Women's Day—but this isn't your typical tribute. Reese's vagina is angry, and she's not holding back. A couples podcast conversation about desire, being heard, and why midlife marriage intimacy requires real talk about what women actually want. Join them as they laugh, cringe, and get to the heart of it. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Dave and Reese swap stories about running into celebrities—and why one encounter still stings. Funny couples story time about the moments that surprise you, disappoint you, and reveal how your partner sees the world differently than you do. Real conversations, unexpected tangents, zero advice. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Midlife marriage isn't all big talks—it's movie nights, home chaos, and the small things that instantly lift your mood. Join Dave and Reese as they reveal what keeps them laughing together, the skills they're eager to learn, and the misconceptions everyone has about them. A candid, hilarious look at intentional relationships and staying connected when life gets weird.

When a burst pipe floods your home, what really happens in a marriage? Dave and Reese navigate home repairs, random questions that spark unforgettable couple stories—including the mysterious black woman, the unforgettable "shut up" lady, and dancing with the thumb—plus Dave's surprise birthday party. Real conversations about staying connected when life literally breaks down. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What happens when an emergency nobody planned becomes exactly what a marriage needed? Dave and Reese recount the little red buckets—a moment of crisis that revealed how they show up for each other when it matters most. Sometimes the best conversations start with the worst timing.

What happens when gentle parenting accidentally kills your marriage? Dave and Reese break down the New York Magazine article "The Rise of the Accidentally Permissive Parent" and explore how parenting philosophy impacts couples' communication, boundaries, and intimacy. A funny, honest conversation about raising good kids without losing each other in the process. Read: The Rise of the Accidentally Permissive Parent. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the M...

Dave and Reese review 2023 together, pinpointing the small moments that kept their midlife marriage feeling fun and connected. This episode doubles as a couples exercise: answer along with them to discover what your best days actually reveal about your relationship. No relationship advice—just two people modeling what intentional reflection sounds like. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Dave and Reese launch a new game show format: part rant, part Scattergories. This week? Bad drivers. But here's the twist—what you hate about other people's driving habits reveals *a lot* about how you and your partner navigate life. A funny, honest couples conversation that starts with road rage and ends with real talk. Play along and see what your pet peeves say about your relationship. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Dave and Reese explore mindfulness and meditation—but not as relationship advice. Instead, they dig into whether you can actually *stay present* with your partner in midlife, what real presence feels like, and why some couples meditate together (spoiler: hilarity ensues). Plus, early morning grocery store runs, Stallone movies, and the age-old question: do you pick the red or brown M&Ms? A funny, honest conversation about intentional relationships and catching moments that matter. Read: Gen Z i...

Early morning trips to the grocery store, Stallone movies, Paper Plane cocktails, and then Dave and Reese get into M&M’s, no, not the candies, silly. Mindfulness and Meditation. But now, who wants chocolate? Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Dave and Reese finally made it off the island—but not before Lost became a couples conversation about mystery, commitment, and why some storylines (and relationships) don't need perfect endings. What does a sprawling, confusing narrative teach you about staying married long term? Tune in for philosophy, frustration, and why binge-watching together might be the best relationship enhancement of all. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠...

What do your favorite concert memories and adult friendships reveal about your marriage? Dave and Reese tackle the question deck post-holiday, exploring making friends at midlife, must-hear rock songs, and why couples podcast listeners should care. A funny, thought-provoking dive into intentional relationships and keeping marriage fun after 22 years together. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Join Dave and Reese as they share 20 years of ridiculous couple moments—and reveal what these hilarious (and sometimes cringe-worthy) stories say about keeping marriage fun, staying curious, and finding humor in everyday absurdity. This is couples podcast storytelling at its best: real, honest, and laugh-out-loud funny. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Dave and Reese are back from a chaotic few weeks—Houston trips, Halloween hangovers, and recovering from the flu. But absence makes the heart wander... so what does it really mean to reconnect as a couple? In this catch-up conversation, they explore what happens when life forces you to step back, what they're most looking forward to as the year winds down, and why staying intentional in midlife marriage isn't about perfection—it's about showing up. A funny couples podcast on presence, resilience...

Dave and Reese went back to Vegas—this time for U2 at Sphere. On their couples podcast about midlife marriage, they dive into how spontaneous adventures keep relationships playful after 22 years. From concert surprises to family moments, hear what they learned about staying connected when life gets weird. A funny, real conversation about keeping marriage fun. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠⁠.

Dave and Reese ask each other random questions—some hilarious, some surprisingly deep—and discover what makes midlife couples laugh and actually listen to each other. No relationship advice, just real conversation that reminds you why you chose this person. Perfect for couples who want to keep the spark alive through genuine curiosity. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠.

What happens when one partner dives deep into conspiracy theories and the other just... listens? Dave and Reese explore Reese's latest rabbit holes and what they actually reveal about how couples stay curious about each other, even when beliefs clash. A funny, honest conversation about trust, misinformation, and staying married to someone who doesn't see the world the way you do. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠.

Dave and Reese dive into UFOs, aliens, and UAPs—and why couples need to talk about the weird stuff. Featuring declassified Pentagon videos, impossible questions, and a reminder that staying curious together (even about conspiracy theories) keeps midlife marriage fun and alive. A funny couples podcast on intentional relationships and everyday absurdity. For your consideration: Pentagon releases 'UFO' videos taken by U.S. Navy Pentagon shares newly declassified UFO videos Mexican doctors conclud...

Dave and Reese tackle the hilarious—and honest—reality of aging in midlife marriage. From eyeglass prescriptions to concert nostalgia, they explore how bodies change, wardrobe choices get weird, and couples stay connected when everything feels different. Plus: a surprisingly productive day worth celebrating. Real talk about keeping marriage fun as you grow older together. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠.

Dave and Reese had a plan. Then something smelled. What started as a simple domestic mystery becomes a hilarious case study in how couples actually communicate when life throws an unexpected wrench into the day. Part detective work, part relationship mirror, all comedy. Listen in as we track down that smell and accidentally learn something about ourselves. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠.

Couples need adventure to stay connected in midlife marriage. Join Dave and Reese as they explore Boston's food and film scene—sharing the real moments that happen when long-married partners step away from routine: the bites, the laughs, the debates, and the reminder that keeping marriage fun doesn't require perfection, just curiosity. If you're a couple looking to reignite playfulness, this getaway story is for you.

When adult kids come home—or stay home—your marriage hits new territory. Dave and Reese tackle the parenting plot twists that force couples to renegotiate roles, laugh at their missteps, and find intimacy in the chaos. Part 2 of Manic Joy's honest look at what keeping marriage fun really means in midlife. Go behind the scenes, help shape our shows, and more. ⁠Subscribe to the Manic Joy email list⁠.